Holiday Grief Tip #6
Continued series from Kristen Riecke:
Holiday Grief Tip #6: Candlelight
Growing up in the Catholic faith tradition, I was deeply moved by the symbolism of candles in places of worship—representing prayerful intention, reverence, and celebration. This inspiration led me to the idea of keeping a candle lit throughout the year, with a special emphasis during the holiday season.
Consider purchasing a personalized candle in memory of your loved one. Place it in a cherished space, perhaps your kitchen table or living room mantle. This candle becomes more than just a source of light; it becomes a beacon of intentional remembrance.
When you light the candle, do so with purpose. Let it be a moment of reverence for their absence and the weight of grief you may carry. The flickering flame can serve as a poignant acknowledgment of the void left by their departure. In these moments, it's okay to feel the heaviness, to honor the depth of your emotions.
Yet, the act of lighting a candle is not solely about the shadows of grief; it's also a celebration of the love and light they brought into your life. Despite their physical absence, their essence continues to shine brightly in your hearts and home. Each time the candle is lit, it becomes a tribute to their enduring impact—a small but significant act of celebration for a life that touched yours so profoundly.
