What NOT to say (Tip #5)

5. God must have needed them more than you do

This one has similar problems to "God needed another angel in heaven." 

It cuts in two ways. 

First, it paints God as selfish during a season when the griever needs God to be caring. 

Second, it minimizes their connection with their loved one.

So, don’t say “God must have needed them more than you do.”