Holiday Grief Tip #4

A significant aspect of the Christmas holiday for parents is the joy of giving thoughtful gifts to their children – an integral part of the magic of Christmas. The happiness derived from placing a carefully chosen, beautifully wrapped gift under the tree or filling a stocking with utmost care is truly irreplaceable.

For those of us with a child living in Heaven, our approach to gift-giving takes on a profound and unique meaning. In lieu of tangible presents, we offer the precious gifts of time and intention to soothe our grieving hearts. Discovering ways to include and honor them maintains the spirit of Christmas.

This year, consider making a difference by giving to an organization dedicated to supporting children in need. Opting to shop for a child of the same age and gender as yours can provide profound meaning for both the giver and the recipient. Alternatively, donating your time or providing financial support to an organization in their honor can be a heartfelt way to spread the spirit of giving.

If the person you're missing this holiday season wasn't a baby or child, embrace the memories you made with them, and turn those stories into gifts around a table or on social media. If you're shopping for gifts and see an item you would have gifted to your dad, say so.

"If Dad was still with us, I'd totally get this for him. He would have loved it!"

However you celebrate, integrating the loved ones you miss the most will make the holidays feel more complete.

P.S. For a personalized gift that celebrates the loved ones you're missing, check out The Remember Shop. This Etsy shop is provided by dear friends of mine who make beautiful remembrance gifts like Abby's glowing orb seen above. Browse their custom items today